even if you wrote
i suggest you "4x4 cars for wedding purpose is totally pathetic". that tone didnt sound right.
the thing to note is he doing something for a wedding, let him do what he wants,, right?
you did whatever you did on yr wedding. if people said to you that was pathetic. im sure youd feel offended.
no more further discussion from me, this is going way offtopic
you write whatever you want and answer the awkward questions later on like"who are you to tell me what to do".