What is the right age to get married & have kids?

[Skyline_Drift_Master]

Yeah it might be a stupid topic but just wondered what people think these days. A lot of people say around 30 is a right age but to me I think between 24-26 is the right age, after that it gets too late.


There was a time when people used to get married at somewhere between 16-20


Whereas to have kids, for me about 2 years after marriage, not straight away.





adding one more q:


How old the girl should be? ie age difference. For me same age (few months older or younger then me) or 1-2 years younger

[air_explorer]

I think it varies for everybody,for me it should be between 28-30 & kids straight away

[2468]

whats the logic behind kids after two years :A

[Skyline_Drift_Master]

Originally Posted by 2468

whats the logic behind kids after two years :A

Give you time to settle down, get to spend time with your wife and sort your life out together before preparing for a new arrival rather then get that new arrival straight away without being prepared yourself if you get what I mean...

[malik593]

i think islam has also provided us the right info about this you can marry if u r balig same is the case with girls
well i think there must be a condition that you r earining to live on your own and u can marry whenever you want
and regarding children its a personel choice

[yasir_01]

2 me...
Balig hone k bad jb b banda shadi k kabil hojaye ( in sense of incone n stuff)
yani khud apne sath sath apni Patni ko b khush rakh sake HAR lihaaaz se... xD!
nd for bache wali thing i completely agree with Syl9 drft Mastr =)
Main b bs kuch salon tk karne wala hun lol
j.k

@malik593
"i think islam has also provided us the right info about this you can marry if u r balig same is the case with girls"
1st thing
Islam ne hmain har choti se lekr bhari cheeex k bare main btaya hai.. tho i dn hav much knolege bout marige..
2nd Thing
Islam z also right

[RetardedBuddy]

The best age to have kids is 13 cause then you'll be 31 and your kids 18, good times good times

[iLLDuDe786]

i would like to be arnd 25 and fully setlled with my own business and income then i wud get married nd she cud be arnd 20 i guess.

[internal_auditor]

According to me 25 Year to get married.

[TrueEye]

whenever one feels that he can no longer restarin his horniness..

[NASFOREVER]

well according to me the right age to get married is 25.....
by doing this u not only marry but also complete the sunnah of HOLY PROPHET (SAW)......
the age difference between a girl and a boy must more than 3 to 4 year and till 6 to 7 years...

[vickybhai]

according to me the boy should be 27-30 years and the girl should not be less than 24.........age diffrence should be 1.5-2 yrs nt more than that.........never so that both should be able to understand each other


About the kids there should be mutual understanding b/w both to have kids as to when to have.............

[khurem]

Originally Posted by RetardedBuddy

The best age to have kids is 13 cause then you'll be 31 and your kids 18, good times good times

And the brought up, education, essential needs of the kid of 18 year old was funded by?


hmm too much burden on the grandpa to not only raise a kid, but his kid's kid too.


Though, ideal for the guy (child?) who got married at age 12.

[bango]

Whenever you find the person who seems just right to spend the rest of your life with - be it 20, 25, 30.... you'll understand it's her rightaway, and when for a sec you'll consider her as your wife, your life's bits and pieces will seem to fall into the right places like a jigsaw puzzle...only all by themselves.

[wik_a]

23-26

[104Bukhaar]

@poster...its a gud topic...so dn feel abt it.

My views..the early u get married ...the better you are since you haev lessen the chances to commit sins..practically speaking..anywhere after 23 and before 26 would be perfect...waisay bhee aanay wali apna naseeb saath lati hy..trust me on tht..and it doesnt mean you have to marry a tycoons daughter...but just marry with all gud faith and with the mentality that becasue of this may Allah bring happiness in my life and it will def happen.

[wasifali89]

lmao @ topic

[SER_GTR]

After Completing You Normal Studies...Should Be Around 24-26....Maxx 26.....!!


Girl Age Does'nt Matter As ISLAM Don't Put Any Restrictions But As Our Culture And People Goes She Will Be Either Same Or 1-2 Yrs Small...!! Higher Age Girls Are Usually Not Preferred Don't Know Why But Its All Lame Things Our People Make...Making Marriage A Hell Of Job To Do Nowdays Atleast In Pakistan....!!


Its Strongly Recommend Not To Try This Marriage Thing ....!! Believe Me You Won't Find It Any Good...!! Bachelor's Life Always (y)....!! Khao Peao Mojaan Karo

[JumboJet]

22-24
thats the right age imo.

[internal_auditor]

Bachelor's Life Always ....!! Khao Peao Mojaan Karo

IMO, Marriage is compulsory for every young person. It is necessity of life to fulfill our horniness. very much compulsory