Life is nothing we see in movies or those motivational videos where the guy is saying hey live your life, live in the moment, this and that blah blah. Truth is, life is pretty boring and unfair
You are in school, you get up every day at 7, go to school, cram stuff, learn math formulas that you will never use, get beat up by your teacher but You graduate.
You than go out to find a job only to realize that it wasnt what the teachers or school told you. Getting a job isnt easy, there are tons of other people applying for the same position as you but You finally get a job.
Your dead end job starts to slowly kill you from inside. You hate your boss, you hate getting stuck in traffic everyday, you hate everything about your job but you need the money because at home, your parents are getting old, your kids are growing up and you dont want them to go through what you went through, even though they will go through exactly the same crap as you, but 1000% times more because future is ugly, more competition, more population, less money etc.
But again, there are always some people born with a golden spoon in their mouths. For instance, me. Born poor, spent most of my childhood in poverty. One of my rich uncle would not even park his car in front of my house because he was embarrassed.
Ask me anything and I will answer.