If members aren't coming back, it's because of conflicts with either:
a) Mods or admin
b) Other members
c) Their ammi jaan, who has risha-o-fied their a$$ because they spend too much time on some "car" website interacting only with men.
Here's a bit of analysis:
a) As someone who was once in a moderator role quite actively, I can tell you that we usually never had a problem with most members. It was a given group of about 20 members who we were always getting report abuses about, and had to subsequently keep a close watch on thereafter.
b) Most members have built relationships here with their fellow Pakistani car enthusiasts better than they could have in person. Sure there have been tussles between some members, and if it's gotten to a saas bahoo type of level, then we've lost them. And... we're fine with that.
c) That's true for all of us, so I suggest we all stop making crazy threads like these and enjoy the few days we all have left with each other.