Sorry I missed this thread earlier.
1.Get your headlights cleaned.
2.If 1. fails, get new headlights.
3.Get Phillips Rally Bulbs.
4.Install fog lights(preferably with yellow bulbs) as an added precaution.
5.Don't install HID's or those Blue Halogen Bulbs.
and yes, those relays do not increase the brightness at all, its just a myth.