Dear cyberjunk14,
My sympathies with you, I must say you are too simple person because you should have learn t from your earlier 2 misadventures.
Trust in Allah, I am sure he will compensate u. As far as the deceiving persons, its my firm belief that they will suffer much more than they have hoodwinked from u.
My advice is that you look for the COD (cash on delivery) option thru a courier company.