this is a long thread and words might be hard or harsh.Please forgive if i hurt you or said something wrong.And this is what i think and i might be wrong
never trust anyone you first met.
never trust someone who lies with somebody else infront of you (little lie or big lie ,even if he lies in jokes).
never use or relate wise saying like 5 ungliyan baraber nhn hoti they are just used to make their point right and make you speechless.
never get angry.
don't give money to beggars because they work in group and their leader take all the money they have so you are not helping them but if you want to give them give food give them house (if you can ).
never abuse anyone but if you do please don't abuse outside private place where childrens hear and they just start using their words in front of anyone without knowing meaning of it.
never take kids when you want to do shopping for yourself and if you want to do shop clothes for your childrens only don't do window shopping or shopping for yourself.
don't believe or react what you have only heard not seen or only seen not heard and only seen and heard but havn't thought about it.
when you see someone old or someone stuck try to help them.
always carry 500 ml bottle half filled with petrol so when you see someone who standing in road give him that.
try not to break rules and if you don't like rules of any country you should leave it or follow the rules.
every weekend take your family outdoors so you can spend time with them.
this is my favorite when ever you have fight even its their mistake apologize first it will be sweet.
alway think once about your mistake and never do that mistake again.
i will say my own quote here "its better to earn good deeds by talking truth than earning sins by talking a lie"
whenever someone do something wrong or not favoring you, think about his problem rather than being angry and saying dosro ko app yeh and stuff.
whenever you see a girl with or without hijab keep you eyes down and walk away.
when you send your kids to madrissa also arrange them language class of Quranic Arabic so they will easily understand what they are reading,have read and what is the idea there is also translation but i found differences in translation when you go and read Quran E pak in different firka Mosque.
whenever discussing something ISLAMIC. first discuss only with someone you will hear and answer mostly calm people.secondly when you tell them something keep a reference(like hadees in sahi bukhari) so he can read that or you can show that.
there is nothing like highclass or low class and if there is it is not related with money.if you are a crorepati you will consider your self high-class but that is ego only. in simple example are our PROPHETS.they are high-class because of their contribution not what they earned.
never blame someone if you have no proof and if someone says he has proof ask for it.
do whatever you like because people will talk and their words ain't worth anything until you react.i mean why people compare justin beiber with girls.> just to laugh
always be logical when discussing because when you get angry you will say something one will reply in heart but if you talk logically he will reply and you will answer logically and discussion will let you know more.. Baat karnay say baat barhti h ya pata chalti.
when at cng or petrol station keep you headlights on low so when you are leaving light won't be hitting someones eyes happened to me once i take that as precaution.
don't eat,talk on phone ,or do weird stuff while driving because if you don't like your life the people who will be in danger love theirs.
when ever you hear name of Holy Prophet Hazrat Mohammad S.A.W please say S.A.W
alway say hazrat or don't say like hazarat ali nay kaha please say hazart Ali R.A nay Farmaya. You are not talking about a guy named ali you are relating with hazrat Ali R.A or hazrat Bilal R.A. please take care of these respect showing places
the most important
when talking about ALLAH PAK people say ALLAH YEH DAY DAY IT is WRONG HE IS GOD NOT ......
please say ALLAH PAK APP YEH DAIN DAY BE RESPECTABLE
ALLAH LOVES US