i did. YOU didn't get my reply. you remarked about a person's feelings about a car and i just said one should be open to
Yes one should be open to all sorts of comments and suggestions. But comments like throw away your car, dump it, its a crap can are not helpful. One can be very dignified and civilized in expressing one's opinions which are supported with reasons.
then you asked me what's wrong with a guy asking for suggestions and my reply indirectly meant that there's nothing wrong in it but if someone tells you the truth you should accept it.
I can go on commenting on you about how indirect meanings and ludicrous examples are a sign of gloomy thinking, and how they can lead to misunderstandings, but I wont, as the subject of this thread is not regarding that.