You should go with the 4300k temperature. They look closer to the OEM. However you won't get that sweet-oem like rainbow cutoff from an hid in a halogen projector. Plus, this halogen projector wont fit OEM spec D2S or D4S bulbs. You'll have to go aftermarket.
If talking purely in terms of light intensity, HIDs are always the brightest. Led bulbs dont even come near to them. You can test this by lighting these lights in a dark room and pointing a lux meter at them. I myself am running a morimoto miniH1 projector system with 35w denso ballasts in a civic 8th gen.
However, since LEDs are more versatile, do not have an initial startup delay like HIDs and can be accommodated in various housings, caused the eventual demise of hids and now virtually every new car has LEDs.