Verbal dhulai is actually very common.
Women do drive cars ,,, and as we have seen, we see rare cases of females riding motorbikes as well. However, they don't perceive vehicles as a passion or hobby.
I have seen a lady on PakWheels taking part in discussions, but her questions mostly hover around CNG and related issues.
So .. for married people, PW is a safe site viz-a-viz prospects of "dhulai"