every member is responsible for his own posts and sometimes members cannot keep the responsibility that drops down to admins.,, its nothing to do with bans and all. this is not a school. we are already thankful to admins for hiring staff, which manages and works on development of website with co-ordination of mps. 2ndly, every member visiting the website has to view the site with a broad spectrum keeping in mind this is "worldwideweb" and not your local mohalla. plus admins have allocated some moderators who keep checking the site 24/7. i feel admins have done beyond their part to keep site clean, and still there are complaints which are focused to limitations of narrow zone,,meanwhile there are complaints from members about posts being deleted. i feel admins are spending lot of money and effort on site have managed to do a great job,, we should be thankful because to complaints there is no end! last, worthy posts remain here as they get replies,, lots fade away. so how do you think admins should manage all this,, any great ideas are welcome. do you want a website for women/children only or what?