well well well
are you responsible for yourself & self sustaining to make decisions and stand by it.
I doubt that.
While you (me as well) were growing up your (mine too) parents looked after your everyday need and safety, security PLUS emotional & moral health to ensure the best quality education & life style for BEST character building.
IF & when you are done & over with school (read studies) & started practical life to be self sufficient financially have you started acting responsible for those who cared for you while you were growing up? & thats' a question majority of Local youth FAIL to understand. Responsibility is not just about money & material it is about keeping moral & values intact & carried forward.
2 cents suggestion look for meaning of a word .. INFATUATION !