@ nak,
Agree with you 100%. Thats exactly what I meant.
I have read the same Holy verse.
For Khabeeseen (Bad, evil, cheaters, Mod Scots with no family values, boyfriend/girlfriend type, Zinna Commiting type, etc.), are for each other. I am glad I am not in this group.
and the Tayyabeen (Pure, simple Shareef type, Never been in Girlfriend/Boyfriend type of relationships, etc.) are for each-other. I strive everyday to remain in this group. May Allah make it easy for us all.
So, all matches are made in heaven and Allah knows best. Its better to Wait and Be Patient, till a Tayyab Wife is given to you, by Mercy of Allah (S-W-T), and ofcourse you have to continue to work on your own Imaan and be Tayyib yourself. Its a work in progress. May Allah make me a Tayyib and Mom'in Person, Ameen, and all of us the toufeek and MAKE US become Momineen. I pray for myself, that O' Allah, Make me a Tayyib and Momin Person, by all means, make a situation for me to be Only a Momin and a Tayyib person, that you are Happy with and does not have your Anger. Bay Shaak, Allah (S-W-T), is most merciful and forgiving. Allah (S-W-T), has mentioned many times, Make Toba (Astaghfar) with pure niyyat and Allah (S-W-T), is Raheem and Rehman. If you take ONE Step to be closer to Allah (S-W-T), Allah (S-W-T) comes 70 times more closer to you (this is just one example). I have seen this fact many times... We all can attest to this if we look closer at some of the events in our lives.
And similarly, if you continue to IGNORE your duties (Salaat 5 times a day, Zakaat, not STAYING within LIMITS as told by Allah (S-W-T), etc.), you yourself will feel this state of anxiety, and Bay chainee, in your life, no matter how wealthy you are.
May Allah make us the people of Strong Imaan, not just Muslims.
As it is also mentioned in Holy Quran.
When people say, we are people of imaan, tell them, they are Muslims but NOT all are Mo'meeneen (people of Pure Imaan). As there are also Monafeekeen, etc. that are also among Muslims, and were also present at the time of Prophet Muhammed (S-A-W). The Holy verses of Quran are true word of Allah (S-W-T), revealed over 23 years and many verses point to the situations and people that our Holy Prophet (S-A-W) had to deal with on day to day basis. This is why ISLAM is a PRACTICAL WAY of LIFE, as it virtually revealing slowly, over the LIFE TIME Prophet Muhammed (S-A-W) and answered ALL the questions one may have, and has left ample room for interpretation by the Alaam-e-Deen, scholars.
Its very important to note the last line. The interpretation by SCHOLAR, and Alam-e-Deen. Sometimes, we all think we are Alam-E-Deen, and offer our own interpretations bravely, but we fail to recognize what it takes to be a REAL and LEARNED Scholar of Islam. It takes a life time and Sincerety in the heart and most of all, FEAR / genuine Respect Allah (S-W-T) and all the creations of Allah (S-W-T), to become a true Alam-e-Deen.
May Allah give us all the toufeek and will and strenght to learn our deen the way it is suppose to be learned. We all are guilty. We spend the whole life learning about this DUNYA, and spend no more than few hours if at all, to learn anything about our Beautiful DEEN, which has answers to All our problems.
I don't claim to be an Alam-E-Deen, none of us are. The true Alim, won't have time to sit on an Automobile Blogging website, instead he would be Worried about the state of this Ummah, and how to bring it back to the Straight Path, that It Is Suppose to Be ON and has forgotten and is continuing to stray away....
Allah Help us all. Ameen.