@Haceeb
"according to you a non-muslim shouldnt get a good wife ?"
No... That is NOT what is said above.
The Holy Quran, used the word "Khabeeseen", The plural for Khabees - Male. (or a Man with a bad character), Khabeesaat is the Plural female (or ref. to Women with bad character). And in this Verse, it does not say, MUSLIM KHABESEEN, but in General. Remember, Quran is NOT just guidance for Muslims only, its for Non-Muslims as well, if they are guided by Allah (S-w-T).
And, accordinly, as you've pointed out that, Therefore, All Non-Muslims should get Bad Wives. Again, NOT ALL Non-Muslims, have a Bad Character. I live in a country where 98% of the Population is Non-Muslim and I see alot of Good People here that are Christians, Jews, Budhists, Hindus, Sikhs, etc. Some have been my teachers, some my co-workers, some my bosses, and some my classmates, and I have seen both good character and bad character in them all. There are million stories I can type here, and you KNOW I will, ( that is according to my previous 500+ line replies... LoL).
But anyway, back to the point. No that nullifies your point that all Non-Muslims should end up with bad wives.
@nak,
I understand what you said above and there is no competition of any sort going on here. Only an individual who has went thru an experience knows it himself/herself, and ofcourse, Allah (S-W-T).
And no, no one can tell by just looking at the faces. I did not say in 100% all the cases, the person with Lanaat on their face has something in the past. Sometimes, that person's has that look due to some ailment or disease, which can be a Test from Allah (S-W-T), and many Momineen, and I think there was one propher of Allah (S-W-T), that had experienced a similar case, when maggots infested the body of that Prophet (A-S), I forgot the name. And sons died, and crops all destroyed, but it was only a test from Allah (S-W-T).....
So, there is no set rule. In general, if you do bad, you can feel yourself, the sort of uneasy feeling and loss of noor, etc. and if you do Good deeds, you feel relaxed and it effects your health and ultimately, the relaxation (mentally at ease), also translates into Physical health and ultimately, a person looking fresh and content. I have seen in many Tableeghi Jamaat Elders, that have this distinct Tamaniyaat, and Nooraniyaat, on their faces, even if they have a very dark skin, i.e. African original or Some parts of South Asia. But they have NOORANIYAAT.
Anyway..
Let get back to the topic.