Glad to see some motivation here,
but unfortunatly, responisibilty is focused on child at very early years and not on adults, if you try on adults yu get more contradiction, argument. opinions etc.
i believe whn your in yr adulthood, , yr on yr own, responsible for yr actions.
children are told,, adults search themselves.. <--thts my theory
another thing i noticed in comment,, "western obeyed law",, adults didnt obey so much,, the next generation did.
you want yr child to be a motorcycle racer, you dont start on him at teenage,, you train him when he's little boy because mind and bones are more flexible. i ve seen 4 years old ride bikes and amazed me.