Bro, don't be too discouraged. Of course when you post on public forum there will be all kinds of opinions. I'm glad you took them positively, which most people don't. In my humble opinion, steering would definitely only look good with a black wrap.
As far as other items, it would be good if you can share some day time snaps so that the true color is visible. In the end, the most important thing is whatever looks good to you!