Longest durability is Silver but silver has a drawback that it doesnât match in repaint and usually if you need to paint one door for example the workshop paints entire side to match.
Dark colors need twice-thrice more cleaning than White and Silver so less durability and more efforts.
Due to these factors I ended up buying White for myself and regarding white getting pale, no its not true. If you keep waxing white it doesnât get pale and the easiest color to match with no swirls getting visible in regular cleaning