Presently my saala is in the US, my father-in-law is in the UK, my sister's husband is in the US for over 30 years.
All these people have done is that they already have, or, are going to, send their children back to Pakistan as soon as they reach their teens.
Those who have their grown up children there, I have seen them crying.
A very good family friend who has 4 -5 kids, just moved back to Pakistan for the sake of his kids.
Aray bhai forget Islam, forget that you are a Muslim, if you have a drop of Ghairat inside you won't let your family see that environment 
