Omer Bahi you are rite , less abrasive is more good
But believe you in me even the simple lime Prime is also safe for our paints , before applying I test it on my hands & than also apply it with my hand to be in total control of it, its an amazing two prong products with cleaning & glowing abilities caz of oil contents in it , its a wipe on wipe off product & I am pasting a link of a video below just count the time of wipe on & wipe off , white applicator in left hand & with in second he is wiping off with the yellow micro fiber , Sir the early you remove , less the force you need to remove & less effect you put on your paint if you feel it abrasive.
3M? Performance Finish - YouTube
To be on safer side I did my first panel with the same way which is shown in the video, but I did apply by hand & removal by MF, & App kee Dua say, after first panel ,I was in full control that how much force I need to apply while putting it by hand,
The best product to get practice by hand is some kind of oil rich Carnauba wax , in my case I use Speed Carnauba wax & while applying wax by hand if you feel you are applying more than requirement just wipe if off & dont wait for haze.
Anyway choice is your if you fell go for LIME PRIME LITE.