To me it seems like the problem lies somewhere else.
Please don't take me wrong but the OP regularly posts his personal problems on PW. I haven't ever seen any of his threads/posts pertaining to autos or traveling (the two features that describe Pak Wheels).
There is no harm in sharing private matters and seeking counseling but the respected member has gone to the level of taking advice about family planning. I can understand that he might be feeling lonely abroad and uses PW as an emotional sink. Who am I to stop him? But he needs to realize that he must improve his social and family relationships. We all face such situations but one must confide in close associates/family members/friends etc to sort out these issues otherwise one has to seek help online only, where solution of all problems don't lie.
A man should act like a man rather than being chicken - hearted all the time. Please excuse me but try to be a man and face the realities of life. You are raising a family. Can't afford to behave like this.
And, I also feel that respected member desperately needs a hobby/pass time to channelize his energies and spare time from work. I have a proposition. Let's just buy an old car and start throwing money on its rebuild like some of us are doing.
