M lyf is distrubed..please suggest me sumthing

[cplpro]

You are Muslim as we are Alhamdullilah...
our Islam teach's us in this situation to look after our parents when they needs us the most...
so, if u follow Islam u should go nd serve ur parents....
THERE'S NO WAY OUT OTHER THAN THIS !!

topic closed !!

[afatifa]

Okay what if some random guy goes to uk for making his career leaving his old parents behind, meet an accident and gets paralyzed, what will be his career and what will be his fate?

valid example.... mmmmmm

[c123pk]

mmmm i think that was a joke rite ?????

That indeed was a joke my friend to make you feel little light but i guess your head is too heavy to digest such things, better pack up brother, this is my brotherly advise, dil khush nahi to kuch bhi nahi.

[s55]

valid example.... mmmmmm

any valid answer to this scenario? you believe you'll make your future? rizk tumhare haath main hai?

[afatifa]

That indeed was a joke my friend to make you feel little light but i guess your head is too heavy to digest such things, better pack up brother, this is my brotherly advise, dil khush nahi to kuch bhi nahi.

yaaar totally exshuasted these days.
dekh bhaaal ker walk kero gher may wooden hay iss liye, subah aram se door open close kero, pani kum kharach kerna, tissue kum use kerna. soch samajh ker baat kero her waqt, kuch pasand ho ya na ho tab bhi khana, no car :(, no frnds, no get to gathers, no fun. it feels like a hell out here man.

[afatifa]

i miss my parents a lot sumtime,,,,,, n miss my car usually :((

[s55]

Dude you have enough excuses to be in uk, so enjoy your life and live happily ever after!!

[c123pk]

yaaar totally exshuasted these days.
dekh bhaaal ker walk kero gher may wooden hay iss liye, subah aram se door open close kero, pani kum kharach kerna, tissue kum use kerna. soch samajh ker baat kero her waqt, kuch pasand ho ya na ho tab bhi khana, no car :(, no frnds, no get to gathers, no fun. it feels like a hell out here man.

Its not your fault, this world is full with people like your big brother, you are at a wrong place, and at a wrong time, this is the time you should be serving your parents and finding a better job in Pakistan as there is no restriction like 10 hours a week over here in our mother country, you will find a good job, Insha-Allah, take it easy, relax!

[c123pk]

I hope you pray Namaz regularly?

[afatifa]

Its not your fault, this world is full with people like your big brother, you are at a wrong place, and at a wrong time, this is the time you should be serving your parents and finding a better job in Pakistan as there is no restriction like 10 hours a week over here in our mother country, you will find a good job, Insha-Allah, take it easy, relax!

so far i m also thinking about the same thing to do......

[afatifa]

I hope you pray Namaz regularly?

feel shame to say but not regulary. but do offer them often

[Xeo]

What a cry baby! Listen afatifa, you need to grow up. Everyone carries their own weight in the Western world. Your brother is carrying his own weight and he definitely would not appreciate free loaders. Living in the US/Canada/UK etc. aint like living in Pakistan where babies in their 30s are still leeching off their parents (abhi tu yeh bacha hai).

Buck up, get a job, and focus on your studies. If you feel that the like aint for you, go back home but I would suggest first finish your degree. It'll help when you move back to Pakistan.

Tough it out. You're 22 years old. You can handle it.

[shaikh229]

Bhai mera mashwara hai ke ap wapis pakistan aa jao aur mom and dad ki dil se khidmat karo. Yeh maa baap ki khidmat aik aisi cheez hai jiska badla Allah dunya me bhi zaroor ata farmata hai. Ap ke liye InshaALLAH rozi ke darwazay ghaib se ALLAH khole ga. Trust karo it is 100 percent truth. Aisay buhat log hai jinho ne maa baap ki khidmat ki tu Allah ne aaj unko khushada rozi di hai aur sukoon ki zindagi guzar rahe hai.

[afatifa]

What a cry baby! Listen afatifa, you need to grow up. Everyone carries their own weight in the Western world. Your brother is carrying his own weight and he definitely would not appreciate free loaders. Living in the US/Canada/UK etc. aint like living in Pakistan where babies in their 30s are still leeching off their parents (abhi tu yeh bacha hai).

Buck up, get a job, and focus on your studies. If you feel that the like aint for you, go back home but I would suggest first finish your degree. It'll help when you move back to Pakistan.

Tough it out. You're 22 years old. You can handle it.

hmmmm 100% true

[afatifa]

What a cry baby! Listen afatifa, you need to grow up. Everyone carries their own weight in the Western world. Your brother is carrying his own weight and he definitely would not appreciate free loaders. Living in the US/Canada/UK etc. aint like living in Pakistan where babies in their 30s are still leeching off their parents (abhi tu yeh bacha hai).

Buck up, get a job, and focus on your studies. If you feel that the like aint for you, go back home but I would suggest first finish your degree. It'll help when you move back to Pakistan.

Tough it out. You're 22 years old. You can handle it.

well i m not crying brother and i know that know one pays for any1 this place. rahi baat studies ki tou meri exemption hui hay mere course may due to my extra courses (jo pak may kabhi kaam nahi ay yahaa kaam aa gaye) i got exemption in my two subjetcts on my course basis and experiance basis. so my course should end at feb 2011 but now it will end till august and than i can get admission in sum further advance course. neither i m trying to show my *** to hard working i worked 28hrs regularly without sleeping r weaping and earned 150 bucks in one day. but the thing is it is not constant it happens quite rare i get extra hours in my current job. just need a chance to proof my potential. thats what i m not gettin due to fing 10 hours limit. parallel to this i keep extra cloths in my bag and roam on high streets in search of job.

[shaikh229]

Dude you have enough excuses to be in uk, so enjoy your life and live happily ever after!!

Bhai apne sahi kaha. Itna samjhanae ke baad bhi wohi totay wali rat lagai hui hai to uk me hi raho. lekin baad me pachtao ge agar abhi wapis nai aye. Aur woh pachtana koi faida nai dega.

[afatifa]

Bhai apne sahi kaha. Itna samjhanae ke baad bhi wohi totay wali rat lagai hui hai to uk me hi raho. lekin baad me pachtao ge agar abhi wapis nai aye. Aur woh pachtana koi faida nai dega.

bhaieee no no no its not lyk dat, buss thora yeh sochta hu k kahi baad may yeh na ho na k bhaag ker aa ***

[afatifa]

Dude you have enough excuses to be in uk, so enjoy your life and live happily ever after!!

i dont lyk living in uk man, jana tou mene bhi hay karachi but thora tension yeh hay k baad may yeh na ho k bhaaag ker aa gaye

[shaikh229]

i dont lyk living in uk man, jana tou mene bhi hay karachi but thora tension yeh hay k baad may yeh na ho k bhaaag ker aa gaye

Bhai aik admi tha. Uske bete ne css me 1st position hasil ki to wo buhat khush howa aur kehta tha ke mera beta secretary banay ga. Khair wo larka secretary to bana lekin maa baap ko aziyat puhunchai. unki old age me khidmat nai ki. To uske baap ne bola k is se acha to yeh tha ke to jahil rehta. kam se kam hamari khidmat to karta. Bhai hadith me hai ke maa ke qadmo tale jannat hai aur baap jannat ka darwaza hai. Maa baap ki khidmat apko aasman per puhncha degi. Trust me is dunya me bhi ap ki zindagi apne sab behan bahiyo se achi hogi. Khud mere dad ka aik example hai.
Meri dadi aur dada old age me mere dad ke stah rehtay thay aur mere mom and dad ne dono ki buhat khidmat ki. mere dad ke 2 bhai aur 7 sisters hain aur aaj Allah ne unko sab se zyada nawaza hai har lihaz se. Maal bhi khoob diya hai aur aulad bhi farman bardar.

[afatifa]

Bhai aik admi tha. Uske bete ne css me 1st position hasil ki to wo buhat khush howa aur kehta tha ke mera beta secretary banay ga. Khair wo larka secretary to bana lekin maa baap ko aziyat puhunchai. unki old age me khidmat nai ki. To uske baap ne bola k is se acha to yeh tha ke to jahil rehta. kam se kam hamari khidmat to karta. Bhai hadith me hai ke maa ke qadmo tale jannat hai aur baap jannat ka darwaza hai. Maa baap ki khidmat apko aasman per puhncha degi. Trust me is dunya me bhi ap ki zindagi apne sab behan bahiyo se achi hogi. Khud mere dad ka aik example hai.
Meri dadi aur dada old age me mere dad ke stah rehtay thay aur mere mom and dad ne dono ki buhat khidmat ki. mere dad ke 2 bhai aur 7 sisters hain aur aaj Allah ne unko sab se zyada nawaza hai har lihaz se. Maal bhi khoob diya hai aur aulad bhi farman bardar.

mashallah good to hear about your dad........ well so far ive decided to go karachi in august this year inshallah