New paint is fade and dull, specially the way Honda is doing in a hurry. Get it detailed once like I got done. Waxes are more for depth and some protection. The swirls you think are getting dim exist as they are but only get masked with waxes.
Other waxes which reduce swirls are not recommended as they have abrasive properties and gradually keep cutting the paint with every application. Please note all waxes are not the same, some are abrasive and some are not. Ultimate Paste Wax is not abrasive so ideal for regular application.