not a wise thing to Blame everything on the parents , You know , i come from a very upper class background , bureaucratic , and high ranking people , my father served as a high a ranking officer though out his life in Shell international ,
but u know , he doesn't even know how to properly use a pc , he has no idea how all the " NEW-AGE gadgets " work , or what are the possibilities of telecommunication abuse. We are the generation who knows these abuses inside out , and we are well informed. in remote areas , all you can do is WISHFUL thinking.
Lets say we live in a jungle surrounded by man eating lions, then will we allow our children to be going out without a check? Our society has exactly become like a jungle full of blackmailing men... Frustrated youth have learned the hybrid way of emotionally blackmailing a girl for sex.. the girls have also learned the hybrid way of seducing a man for her own advantages, be it money or whatever....
very well said , i would not differ at all , but rather add , that while we keep running around in circles and circles , to secure our society of a jungle , which is getting worse day by day , we try to create every new formula , but FAIL to realize that ISLAM has given us proper punishments for these acts , if ENFORCED , and sharia established , then you will not see any of the possible corruptions at all .
Parents have lost their prime responsibilities over there children... Have we ever surprised visit our children at their schools/colleges/universities to see what they are doing? Have we ever checked on our children in their bedroom to see if they are asleep or on a fuc*** phone? I completely blame the mothers of this past two decades for not teaching their children how to live a responsible life... All mothers know is "Mera beta yeh... meri beti yeh..." while all is ********... What that mother doesn't know is that child is cheating her by talking late nights on phone and going on dates...
this i absolutely agree , MAA BAP khud side lined hain apnay roots se , islam se , tuo bachay kahan se sekheingay , tameez , sharam o haya.
I wish some of you can visit some guest houses in school/university timings to see what is happening in those rooms... while parents think there children are at school/university having quality education.... Does it mean we close all guest houses? No... Parents need to wake up and take responsibility for their children... We live in a Muslim society and we have immense role to play as a parent... Blaming the government or PTA would not solve the issues... We all need to play our roles to make Pakistan and the entire Muslim ummah a healthy society...
as a last point , what i would say is , that you are raising COLLECTIVE issues , and then blaming it on individuals .
these collective issues are NOT to be dealt by individuals niether they have the power to do so .
these collective issues are dealt by the state of Islam . and the Only and Only way to save this society and humanity as a whole is to establish Shariat/ shariah Laws .
We are muslims , why do we have the LAW of Kufr ruling us all this time , when we have Laws of our OWN , that is the question.
