Since you have 2 meters do the following:
Install an on-grid inverter (min 5kw) to qualify and apply for net metering on one meter.
Install a hybrid inverter on the other meter which technically will not export but will power your house during the day / during power failure.
Divide your solar panels amongst the ongrid and hybrid as necessary/ per load.
Otherwise get a 3phase nitrox 12kw hybrid which qualifies for net metering.
Play it safe so in case of a future audit / inspection, you would be totally legal / per spec.