@Spectra Bhai dont take it offensive or any thing like that i didn't pointed out you nor i said any thing bad to you, but i was talking in general.
It's natural to be attracted to opposite sex, not opposing that but i was just mentioning how our ways of thinking have changed...
i dont remmber Allama Iqbals' Shear but i'll post a pushto saying might some1 can translate it in Urdu/English...
Taliba Khawrey ba mula she...
Naast kitab ta ye yaadawe shinke khaloona...
