185/65 is best, don’t change profile. I’m talking from experience.
Regarding brands, it all depends on the budget and what is available. Low noise and soft options are there but the main compromise is usually tire wear and damage prone sidewalls. If you drive on paved roads, then you can get these soft tires. Yokohama Advan dB, Michelin XM2, Dunlop Touring R series/Veuro 303, etc.