What is the right age to get married & have kids?

[TrueEye]

^^ dude, love is blind

[TrueEye]

s55, you seem worried :d lol

[internal_auditor]

Yes love is blind lol

[ZXMCO]

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your Welcome brother, MAN! you're my new hero!... B-)

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[ZXMCO]

Interesting Discussion Going On....!!

I Still Say...Finding Good Families Is No Joke Nowdays....As I Said Earlier

Wants Are Unlimited....!! Most Of Them Just See You Bank Balance...Your Home..How Many Shops You Earn If You Have Your Own Or How Much You Earn If You Have Job.....How Many Sisters You Have Since Sisters Look Some Monsters To Them....!! Later....What About Their Child's Security...Nowdays Trend Of Fixing Heavy MEHAR's Getting Common Day By Day....!! Lacs of RS Are Written In Nikah Nama So If Something Goes Bad....Atleast They Get Their Security Deposit With INTEREST Of Their Daughters Marraige ...Soorry But Thats What I Called It...!!

Some Says Our Daughter Have To Study More As She Was Already 23-25 But Still She Need To Study Atleast 5 Years More...And In B/w As Enviorment Goes....Something Really Happens For Sure...Mostly In Result Of Love Marriage It Came And In Most Cases....As Hashim Bhai Said.....Divorce Rate Is Quiet High In Love Marriages Compared To Arranged...!!

Faisal Bhai Was All Correct And I 100% Agree On Fact That MOM's Image Is A Mirror For Her Daughter...!! If She's Good...ALL Is Good....If She's Got Ill Thinking...All Went Bad....!! Since A Good Mother Is Needed To Have Some Good Childs...!!

Unlike Of Lack Of Interest Of People In Good Respectable Peoples Nowdays....Its Look More Complicated To Me In Upcoming Future...And In All This Foreign And Neighbour Media Play Their Important Role...THANKS To Star Plus Like Channels Who Teaches Womens How To Protect Themselves How To Snatch A Son From Parents So So....!! Same Goes On Other Side...!!

Nowdays I Say Its Very Hard Or For Me Its Impossible To Find Some Good Respectable Family...!! ALLAH Knows Best And Can Help Else We Don't Have Guts To Find Some Good Peoples With Good And Clear Family Background + A V________ Girl With Clean Character....!!

MAY ALLAH Bless All And Meet Good Families Togeather....!!

you're right brother, (Y) looks like you got vast experience about this field. keep us updated

[air_explorer]

I think its even becoming harder & harder day by day to analyze other family just by meeting in drawing room,I m 100% agreed with @SER_GTR that complications have increased a lot.

I think there are only two solutions for this,first is the girl can be your close relative so that your family doesnt need to check anything.Second one is to start searching for a life partner from college life so that you get enough time to search for a better girl.

Wrong marriage is like BANDA FAARIGH HOGAYA,100%

Allah khair karen,Ameen

[asimgujjar]

Shadi aik aisa moti choor hai jo khai pachtai jo na khai woh bhi pachtai

[air_explorer]

@asim

kha ke pachtana na paray isiliye yeh discussion yahan tak agayi hai

@all

married bandon ki involvement buhat zarori hai is thread mein

waise,yeh baat sahi hai ke aj kal v_______ ka scene khatam hota jaraha hai? :o

[asimgujjar]

@air_explorer
Bro meri ho chuki hai na isi liya keh raha hun :d

[air_explorer]

@asim

waise what do you suggest,better to go for a younger girl or an older one?

for older one,what about understanding ?

[asimgujjar]

^^ Bro go for younger one. As she ll younger, psychologically she ll give more respect and ll give more importance to ur opinion and u can better control her. As mine is 3 year older than me thats why i am concluding this from my own experience but exception is always there

[air_explorer]

@asim

thanx bro.

[SER_GTR]

Well @ZXMCO

I Have Experienced All These When We Are Looking For A Partner For My Elder Bro....!! It Looks Just so Easy To Us 3 Years Ago But Now We Know How Complicated It Is....!!

@air_explorer...Well Bhai Nowdays Even About Your Owns You Can't Say....No One Goes Behind Anyone To See What He/She Is Doing.....You Don't Trust Anyone But As Per You Know Family And Person By Self....Yup You Can Have An Rough Idea.... About College So Not Every One Is Like That ...!! And Can Say Not Mature Enough To Think All That In College Life...!! Not All Of Us Get Co-Education....!!

Its All About What Can I Say Luck Or Fortune Wateve...!! I Just Have Believe That I Don't Do Anything Bad So I Won't Get Anything Bad....But Still It Happens SomeTimes So Its Your Forture And I And We All Should Have A Believe That ALLAH Knows Better And What Happen Is For Betterment.....Rest ALLAH Knows...! Looks Painful To Us But Who Knows What More Painful We Are Saved For....!!

Baki As Our Mind Says.....Its Impossible Nowdays To Find One Decent Sinciere Partner Easily....!!

I Say If Possible Keep Yourself Away From Atleast This Hassle Of Life...Till Now I Think This....ALLAH Knows About Rest Of Life

[air_explorer]

@SER_GTR

arrey yar its not that easy to keep away from this motichoor

Only thing we can do is to pray for good,Allah jo karen,behtar karen,Ameen.

now get married,leave everything on Allah

[rusty_racer94]

my parents had came to a final Decision that I will marry at 24-27, after completing my PhD

[air_explorer]

@rusty

tum itni asaani se bewaqoof ban gaye

tumne 100% apne parents ki jaan azaab kardi hogi

[rusty_racer94]

101% :d
and I also said that I will marry outside family and Irish Muslim

[faisi001]

to all my brothers.....

shadi is a gamble.....mark my words it is a gamble...u will never know abt the girl till u marry her....

finding a good wife is like having paradise on earth otherwise she can make it hell on earth for u

always marry at early age arround 24 to 26 when u finish studies and dont worry abt ur financial situation coz the woman u marry brings her own fate with her and as our prophet said

paisa aurat kay naseeb say and bachay admi kay nasseb say......

always check the girls mothers life history.....

baqi kids are all in Allahs will..u have no power over it

[rusty_racer94]

^^
1000000000000001% what my parents said

[air_explorer]

@rusty

MashaAllah

At age of 15,i even didnt bother to think about marriage