What is the right age to get married & have kids?

[s55]

hmmmmmm again sorry to hear that.

[c123pk]

@faisi001, its good for you that it ended early, take care when you go looking for another chick, find a saada, down to earth one, the 1 who "obeys" you, who never says 'No" to you, dun worry, Insha-Allah you ll find one

@qwertipiou, dude, take a chill man, why do you take my foolish talks to your heart ?

[c123pk]

c123pk Consider yourself one lucky dude.

Alhamdulillah, but at the same time i consider all the people around me, relatives / friends lucky too, we live in PK dude out of 100s of examples around i just have seen 1 female dominating her male and that male in my opinion is a khassi or maybe an aandoo, i dunno really, but i dont like the way he handles his wife :S

It reminds me of 1 of ma generation old servant, he married some out of control chick, he turned her into a normal 1 by tieing her hands and feet every now and then

[qwertypoiu]

No i nver did that. and wrote what i felt :).
nothing personal peace

[c123pk]

@qwerti, Fanks bro

[asimgujjar]

Shaadi na kerna yaro pachtao gay sari life

[rusty_racer94]

I am gonna get married at 22
Bachon ka baad main sochoon ga

[AZICOLL]

well one of my teacher gave me a formula about girls and boys age of marriage

he said divide the age of husband by 2 and add 7 in the answer and u will get the age of the wife

for e.g if the age of boy is 20. divide it by 2 u get 10 then add 7 .total becomes 17 and that should be tha age of girl

similarly if boy age is 26. divide it by 2 ,u get 13 add 7 and the girl ages comes thats 20

dont know how much correct that is

[rusty_racer94]

^^
Thats way too wrong
Just 1-2 years up or down are acceptable

[s55]

Well in Pakistan it's a culture to marry a girl 5-6 years younger and there's theory behind that, would not like to tell here but in other countries mostly similar ages get married.

[c123pk]

well these are all wrong, take the Sunnah of Rasool-Allah (s.a.w.w) as an example, no hard and fast rule of age difference, Subhan-Allah, but for the ideal age we may take Rasool-Allah's 25 years of age, that becomes 24 in english calender as told by sumair

[rusty_racer94]

24 should be okay !!
Well I wanna get married at 22 but at the time of University in Ireland I will be 23 :S

[malik593]

in he united states most of em dont have children and mariage till 40 nowadays
in china a girl should be atleast 20 and a boy should be atleat 22 to marry althoug its a old rule and they marry at later ages and some of them even dont marry at all u knw why:D

[c123pk]

ya 24 is good bro, wait for sometime

[s55]

I am 24, am I getting late?

[ToofaneBatameezi]

@faisi001, its good for you that it ended early, take care when you go looking for another chick, find a saada, down to earth one,
the 1 who "obeys" you, who never says 'No" to you,
dun worry, Insha-Allah you ll find one

Doodh rather get some pet then?

[rusty_racer94]

@s55
I will get you one

[TrueEye]

wik_a

so when are you doing something about your horniness?

qwertypoiu

My horniness is waning with each passing day..!!

[TrueEye]

faisi001,

dude really felt sorry after reading what you've gone through.. I thought such things happened only in dramas and movies :s

Anyhow time to move on, 29 is not that old an age that you wouldn't find any woman..! A MAN NEVER GETS OLD!!!(I personally know of people getting married for the FIRST time at age 45) keep your spirits high and hope for the best..Its good that she left you in just 6 months, what if she were to leave you 6 years down the line with two kids??

You should be very very thankful that she exposed her true side to you right at the onset of your new life.. Be grateful

[TrueEye]

btw i'm amazed to see how the teenagers are more excited about this marriage topic than anyone else

kids as young as 15 are dreaming about their weddings and making plans :| LOL!