Will your Wife approve your 2nd Marriage?

[malik593]

if u have legal sources to support more than one you can have upto 4
wtf are people yelling upon when islam already gave us an explanation

[malik593]

The above question was for ladies.

As Pakwheels is a male dominated forum (in terms of numbers), the question may be rephrased as follows :

Would you allow your wife to have another guy parallel to you?

I doubt if any sane person would fancy the idea of his beloved lady being screwed by some other dude.

dude this realy is a ridiculuos statement i ve ever seen on this forum as far as islamic point of veiw is concerned this statement is very offensive

[malik593]

the other day i was watching some news channel and i was lieraly shocked to see the behavior of people(ladies and trannies) abt 2nd marriage
when islam gave us the liberty to have 4 if we can support them who the hell r these modernized and extra fat ladies sitting in assemblies have some right to say anything isnt it disgracing islam

[Naweed]

In my opinion (i repeat in my opinion) Islam does allow more than one marriage but with a few conditions, such as:
- Your previous wife(s) give you permission
- You fulfill the rights of all wives and their children
- You justify your reasons for second or more marriages

              How would you feel if your father wanted to take this decision? I thing the times have changed and we all are not living in a society / culture which such decisions should be made. If not all atleast the children would certainly get disturbed.

[c123pk]

Surat An-Nisa' - The Holy Qur'an - ?????? ??????

Life is a test my friends, it is a continuous fight for the one who Believes, otherwise you may give it up to the whisperer, its far far easier.

[qwertypoiu]

Surat An-Nisa' - The Holy Qur'an - ?????? ??????

Life is a test my friends, it is a continuous fight for the one who Believes, otherwise you may give it up to the whisperer, its far far easier.

great site you gave

[bango]

The funniest problem with our society are the half-dudes who have only one connection with Islam - they ''use'' islam as a reference in any argument. What's even funnier is that their knowledge is as suprficial as their intellect. They would go about ranting over women's legs in other threads, and half of them I bet don't even know the panchwan kalma, but whenever there's something they can't prove logically, they'd bring in the religion.

I will not go into the argument of four marriages being allowed at that time because of the quick and huge shift of gender balance due to male casualties after every war, nor would I mention that times have changed and men aren't the sole breadbringers of the society(unlike the older times when men hunted and women reproduced). Infact, I will not go into religion at all, because the question isn't religious. Its logical.

Self anatomy is tough, right? That is prolly why we are told to treat others in a way we would want them to treat us.

[MominHaq]

Can't we just get along for once?

A fun thread gone down the drain....

sad, very sad.

[BMW7Series]

lolz

[c123pk]

Edited : I'll have to delete that because of it being 1. irrelevant and 2. mentioning genitalia.

[c123pk]

No it was not irrelevant, im asking it again Bango, prove that a man and a woman are physically equal, than we ll talk logic ! prove it.

[c123pk]

@Bango, you have started it, be a man, you prove it and i ll drop it.

[MominHaq]

No it was not irrelevant, im asking it again Bango, prove that a man and a woman are physically equal, than we ll talk logic ! prove it.

It WAS irrelevant and highly inappropriate!

Please don't ruin the thread by turning this into a religious battle ground and forcing us to close this thread and issue infractions.

For such discussions, please take your views to Pakistan Nerds - Discussions - Group - Hangout - Fun - Technology

[s55]

The funniest problem with our society are the half-dudes who have only one connection with Islam - they ''use'' islam as a reference in any argument. What's even funnier is that their knowledge is as suprficial as their intellect. They would go about ranting over women's legs in other threads, and half of them I bet don't even know the panchwan kalma, but whenever there's something they can't prove logically, they'd bring in the religion.

I will not go into the argument of four marriages being allowed at that time because of the quick and huge shift of gender balance due to male casualties after every war, nor would I mention that times have changed and men aren't the sole breadbringers of the society(unlike the older times when men hunted and women reproduced). Infact, I will not go into religion at all, because the question isn't religious. Its logical.

And logically speaking, how many of you would want your wife to have another man besides you?

Or if that seems offensive to you, how many of you would want your brother in law to marry another girl and ruin your sister's happy and peaceful domestic environment?

Your brother in law is a man too, he has similar rights as you do.

Self anatomy is tough, right? That is prolly why we are told to treat others in a way we would want them to treat us.

I understand what you're trying to say and you're justified. Let me try to explain the possibility as to why this is not permissible for a woman to have two husbands.

Suppose a woman has two husbands gets pregnant, who will be the father of hat child?

Since you have asked not to include Islam so I would not quote the reference for a time being.

[bango]

C123pk - I just don't see the relevance of their being or being not equal (which I never claimed though) with the on going argument.

[qwertypoiu]

i understand what you're trying to say and you're justified. Let me try to explain the possibility as to why this is not permissible for a woman to have two husbands.

Suppose a woman has two husbands gets pregnant, who will be the father of hat child?

Since you have asked not to include islam so i would not quote the reference for a time being.

50/50 i guess

[c123pk]

Momin theres Nothing left here that can be called Religious or Political, so you better stay quiet, dont let my replies vanish !

[bango]

I understand what you're trying to say and you're justified. Let me try to explain the possibility as to why this is not permissible for a woman to have two husbands.

Suppose a woman has two husbands gets pregnant, who will be the father of hat child?

Since you have asked not to include Islam so I would not quote the reference for a time being.

Ever heard of DNA matching?

[MominHaq]

Momin theres Nothing left here that can be called Religious or Political, so you better stay quiet, dont let my replies vanish !

I am sorry but religious content,discussion,links are not allowed,period.

[bango]

50/50 i guess

ROFL .. kindly elaborate