No abusing my dear. If you read the sticker in the engine bay it says Toyota Long Life Coolant lasts 160,000 Kms. I have driven only 76,000 kms so far (since Jan 05). My yearly average was less than 10,000 kms per year.
Only last year I started driving more when I started construction of my house near Police Foundation O-9 so had to travel from I-8. And now I have a daily run of at least 50 kms to and from office.
Stock breaks and break pads are good enough till 100,000 kms and with my driving style i.e anticipatory driving, I use more the engine power to reduce, break speed. I never run to the traffic signals and then break hard and wait there.
Rest I have kept up with the maintenance. Have changed/flushed/replaced transmission, power steering, break oil completely from Toyota 3S.
All along have been buying genuine Toyota filters (air and oil) from 3S. The car still feels like you are driving just a few months old and it is very very light on the pocket.
Nothing special about the car, but it really does the job well for which it is intended for.