Help Required: I don't want to share my car

[wrangler79]

I know its a strange topic but I am caught in a dilemma.
I have Suzuki Khyber and I take care of it too much. Right now I am unemployed but even then I try to save money and maintain this car in every possible way.
Some people have very annoying and bad manners, my Phupha is one of them. After every 2 or 3 weeks he requests me for my car. And he returns me my car in a really bad way like a load of mud inside and outside, scratches on the body, dirty dash board, torn seat covers, torn roof clothing. Once he broke the windscreen in an accident.
Now I want to beat him as much as I can but can't do it as he is quite elder to me and due to the reason that what other relatives will say. They will say that its my mistake.
What should I do now. Tell me some method that this time when he takes my car, he never ask me again for it. I mean the car should give him some serious problems during his journey.

//MOD EDIT: While related to a car, this thread is perhaps more about human relationships. PW cannot condone any acts of intentional sabotage or otherwise damaging or hindering the use of a vehicle. This thread is not suitable for Professional Forums and is therefore being moved to Nonwheels discussion for this reason.//

[mani1]

I would say that he is your elder and you should respect him. I am guessing he does not has his own car/can't afford one and thats why asks for yours. Bad times can befell anyone and one's relatives are the first line of defense. God forbid, if tomorrow you are forced to sell your car, would you be in a position to ask any of your relative for a car? And these worldy relations aside, you are actually helping another human being by lending him your car and trust me, Allah will reward you in one way or another

Other than that, you can politely ask you uncle to ensure that the car is kept clean. Probably your parents saying this would be the best possible idea and it won't feel awkward this way. You can also ask your Phuppos son/servant etc to keep the car clean.

[PuNk]

Keep the petrol tank on low reserve. It would be tough practice to do so. and ask him to fill the tank with petrol and disconnect the CNG. Secondly you can inflate a tire when he come and ask him to change the tire and pretend you cant do it because of certain reasons

[wrangler79]

@mani1
Brother if I don't have a car, I will go on taxi or other public transport. Abusing the car of a person who is himself finding difficulty to maintain that car is not at all justified.
Wo kehtay hain na "Maal e muft dil be-reham"

[wrangler79]

Keep the petrol tank on low reserve. It would be tough practice to do so. and ask him to fill the tank with petrol and disconnect the CNG. Secondly you can inflate a tire when he come and ask him to change the tire and pretend you cant do it because of certain reasons

He will put only that amount of petrol in its tank which is required by him. He will use this petrol, abuse the car and then he would park it at my home when it is at reserve again.

[celica]

Funny situation

[qwertypoiu]

I would say that he is your elder and you should respect him. I am guessing he does not has his own car/can't afford one and thats why asks for yours. Bad times can befell anyone and one's relatives are the first line of defense. God forbid, if tomorrow you are forced to sell your car, would you be in a position to ask any of your relative for a car? And these worldy relations aside, you are actually helping another human being by lending him your car and trust me, Allah will reward you in one way or another

Other than that, you can politely ask you uncle to ensure that the car is kept clean. Probably your parents saying this would be the best possible idea and it won't feel awkward this way. You can also ask your Phuppos son/servant etc to keep the car clean.

your civic is taken by your phupha and threated the same way as his khyber :P.
be remember that you have waxed it with care and used expensive waxes and even used microfiber clot for it :D.....

[malik593]

the best thing for you and your life is getting employed after that u can use the car personally as will be employed and will offourse have alot of reasons
second and the est thing would be the interference from some adult lets say any one elder then u and your uncle and having good understanding of your thoughts
and if both of them dont work park it at your elder brother's or another uncle's place who is busy or in a need of a second car,with a deal that u will use the car and when ever your phuppa will ask he will say that i am in a need of the car which actually he wont

[qwertypoiu]

Well your Phupha sahi Mufta marta ha :P,

well here is a nasty idea.

Make a duplicate key........ then know where you phupha goes and parks. Sneak the Car from there Park it at a safe place which you are sure that your car wont get stolen....
Then enjoy

[PuNk]

qwety had an excellent idea. About changing inflated tire is pretty good idea

[mani1]

Anyways OP, what you can do is take out some fuse etc. and when your phuppo asks for the car you can conveniently say that there is some problem and its not starting up or something. Your phuppo will then be forced to bring in some mechanic etc which will cost him heavily. Do it a couple of times (with intervals in between or he will get suspicious) and he will never ask you again

[farhan678]

Well your Phupha sahi Mufta marta ha :P,

well here is a nasty idea.

Make a duplicate key........ then know where you phupha goes and parks. Sneak the Car from there Park it at a safe place which you are sure that your car wont get stolen....
Then enjoy

+1

[qwertypoiu]

lol
Actually 2 of my cars are in usage of my relatives since last 1 year but that does not bothers me. Similarly in the past when we needed money, the same relatives came to our rescue.

Anyways OP, what you can do is take out some fuse etc. and when your phuppo asks for the car you can conveniently say that there is some problem and its not starting up or something. Your phuppo will then be forced to bring in some mechanic etc which will cost him heavily. Do it a couple of times (with intervals in between or he will get suspicious) and he will never ask you again

Nice

[CutePoison]

Well your Phupha sahi Mufta marta ha :P,

well here is a nasty idea.

Make a duplicate key........ then know where you phupha goes and parks. Sneak the Car from there Park it at a safe place which you are sure that your car wont get stolen....
Then enjoy

+1

[malik593]

Well your Phupha sahi Mufta marta ha :P,

well here is a nasty idea.

Make a duplicate key........ then know where you phupha goes and parks. Sneak the Car from there Park it at a safe place which you are sure that your car wont get stolen....
Then enjoy

he will get to know cuz the car would be in the same condition,moreover he will call police straight away which may leave you to in a serious trouble

[abbasaliabbasi]

Well your Phupha sahi Mufta marta ha :P,

well here is a nasty idea.

Make a duplicate key........ then know where you phupha goes and parks. Sneak the Car from there Park it at a safe place which you are sure that your car wont get stolen....
Then enjoy

Hahahahaha.... Well Said..

[wrangler79]

Funny situation

May be for you it is a funny situation but I am suffering through mental torture.

[wrangler79]

the best thing for you and your life is getting employed after that u can use the car personally as will be employed and will offourse have alot of reasons

I am trying my best to find a good job. But you know the situation nowadays. If I succeed in getting a good job then most of my problems will come to an end inshAllah.

second and the est thing would be the interference from some adult lets say any one elder then u and your uncle and having good understanding of your thoughts

No one is there. Infact my dadi would be the first one to react if I don't give him my car.

and if both of them dont work park it at your elder brother's or another uncle's place who is busy or in a need of a second car,with a deal that u will use the car and when ever your phuppa will ask he will say that i am in a need of the car which actually he wont

I don't have an elder brother. And how will I use my car when it is parked at some one else home.

[wrangler79]

Well your Phupha sahi Mufta marta ha :P,

well here is a nasty idea.

Make a duplicate key........ then know where you phupha goes and parks. Sneak the Car from there Park it at a safe place which you are sure that your car wont get stolen....
Then enjoy

And then how would I bring my car back to home?
He will come to know that I stole my car myself.

[unware]

either sell your car
or
sell ur phupha

All jokes apart brother but ur condition is clueless, i say go with the flow. Until u find a job, keep lending ur car to ur phupha