@javalogix you definitely should trust the company. They are saying 20 weight oil is ideal since the car was made. Why don't you yourself look it up?
Here is the 2008 owner's manual: https://techinfo.honda.com/rjanisis/pubs/om/acv080/acv0808om.pdf
Here is 2010 owner manual using R18: https://techinfo.honda.com/rjanisis/pubs/OM/NA1010/NA1010OM.PDF (both using r18, non-Si version).
Civic X/2016+ Malaysian manual: https://www.honda.com.my/manuals/CIVIC%202016-Current.pdf
If you don't trust Honda itself, why not hear from people pouring in w20 oil since ages? https://www.8thcivic.com/threads/0w-20-in-the-r18.653919/
I thought being on a car enthusiast forum means NOT to blindly follow dealership.
Their objective is to generate profit, they dont even let you run 70% capacity of fully synthetic oils and want you to change it at 5k interval. Some companies call you in after every 3 months for oil change even if you have run 2k km on it. It is a method to generate business.
Atlas Honda might have been saying to use w30 oil and that is NOT wrong to use either, but w20 oil is in use all over the world since R18 was launched. And is fine to use all over. Recommended in manuals.
Local assemblers were never known to be up to date on their methods and tech. Only now they are embracing Xw20 oils officially, 20 years after they have been in use in rest of the world.