Yes the head lights are after market and I bough them on Amazon and a friend of mine brought them to Pakistan
These are not expensive at all....If I remember correctly, these were $70
Regarding the Shocks, I would recomend that you stick to the stock ones for some time as the new like ARB, Rancho, or b Blistien will cost you an arm and leg if you do not have a solid connection in US who can ship them in himself/herself
BTW how long do you have this 40?