Its such a dilemma of our society that people have to look other ways to find good proposals when they have relatives and friends. People seem so religious but they tend not do things that they are supposed to as Muslims. I personally asked many of my friends who are married to help me find good proposal for me but they all didn't do much and some of them are so called religious which I don't really understand when you are not really interested in helping your close friend and Muslim brother find a good wife. On the other hand people misuse platforms like these websites and women behave rudely on private Facebook groups, some of them are just there to have fun. Mindset and the thinking approach of people is too shallow, they don't see why our society is destroyed, its easy to lure a girl into sexual relation than to marry her and the blame goes to the parents. Its harder to marry than to get into multiple sexual relations. And this is happening, close your eyes but it won't change the fact.