It also highly depends on the valve job itself, if the mechanic is slapping it together sloppily with extra tight clearances and then is also only making a valve seat width of 0.5mm - the valve will overheat as it cannot shed its heat fast enough into the valve seat and eventually into the head, it then proceeds to cook the valve seals.
Add a bad quality oil and the rubber cooks into a hard rock.
Also take into consideration - hammering in on valve seals by inexperienced mechanics.