Thank you for response 
What bushings should i use, i have no idea other then your 2 comments
- "if bushings are shot car rides like a bull in mud"
- "with eibach ground control springs and bilstein shocks along with urethane bushings and summer performance tyres - expect a permanent massage from your car - it will also break into pieces from the high frequency vibration."
Regarding Shocks i have 2 options
1 Pakistan , get genuine agry auto (indus oem) or shady KYBs
2 ebay, i have KYB and bilstein struts (without springs) option, I cross matched to toyota genuine part number (found on some website).
Local purchase option gets better if i use shock inserts, as 2 big dealers were more confident about imported variety of 'inserts' (kits). Probably will get good KYB stuff in that case.
1 of the dealer was not sure about quality of KYB strut