The ATF level is only tested with engine started, and idling in Park - you will need to wipe the dipstick three to five times to get correct level - the temperature you are testing is not related to the engine its the transmission itself. Morning startup idling in your house garage should register it between the two marks of cold, It should rise to hot after a one hour drive.
To drain a little, you can remove a litre of it from the cooler line and then test the dipstick and add 150 ml or so as top up between testing.
For the leak, get under the car with a strong light you will find the leak as ATF is quite thin and cleans dirt/grime - so the leak point will be wet and somewhat clean too.
In my experience of rebuilding automatics - you never want to operate an overfilled toyota transmission. I see money growing wings due to that.