have you tested the car properly? - it involves disabling the door switches and using jumper cables on the battery negative to test the total load of the car when it goes to standby and eventually to sleep.
The micu/mux/bcm takes a while to do that.
I made two videos for it - they are not the prettiest but thats my way of finding issues on all kinds of cars.
btw - 60 MA seems like the system goes to standby mode - because sleep mode is about 30 MA on almost any Honda
but I have a personal hatred towards Honda regarding their absolutely useless microscopic lawnmower/power washer batteries they install in cars, they die off pretty suddenly.