@Murtazee - With the well knit family and friends' setup in Pakistan, I think the easiest and safest mode is to ask someone from your family/friends to strike the deal tet-a-tet with the seller on your behalf, and then send the item to you personally.
On a lighter note, those Chinese thugs on ebay haven't delivered my e-phone (chinese i-Phone) yet, its been 3 weeks. I had my doubts when I looked at the price : 12 dollars but I still went for it. I'm going to ask for a refund from paypal 