Thanks for the response you guys ....
I am inclined towards getting a 16 inch set . (partially though LOL)
As far as getting side mirrors, door handles painted. hmm not sure about that. (every body is doing it)
But i have seen some real nice Grills, and body kits (not the usual Altis conversions) But i do not want to make it more sporty. It will not suit my age LOL (I am 41) Alright I am an uncle but have a heart of a teenager LOL
I will keep looking for better grills and better rims ... and will keep yo guys posted.