don't take it to heart,
i have no such business.
the machine shop and the parts , i agree on that however if you know what to do you can ask the machine shop to follow your instruction not their instincts or hearsay / tajurba. If you know the clearance data, the honning required and paying for it it is your right to get the desired result.
it is matter of finding a shop which can do job as you ask .and you should also know the data., not the other way around.
The 2 machine shops in KHI , Malik Autos & Punjab Auto Mechanical Works are into business since i was in knickers. Both owners are now in mid 70s' Their CNC & Lathe machines are state of the art. I have seen them doing TAHLOO kam for day in day out customer and there are people from which they charge premium for as per manual specs.
so again i'd say it is matter of finding a shop which can do work to your specs & data. and it will not fail