Plan on to change this smooth gear within 50k kms.
By saving few thousands you will spend few lakhs only.
Can you remove a stain of tar from a white cotton cloth? There is no way and you will end up getting a new piece of cloth. Same goes with your filter, your mechanic must have washed with petrol and compressed air which would have opened way more openings in filter.
There is no washable OIL/FLUID filter in the world. Hope your transmission survives, but it will surely fail due to this jugaar. Save your original transmission as much as you can, so called kaabli transmission in the markets are mainly scrap, and they're being rebuilt by taking transmission parts from many different places.