-and so are men.........the reason why she rejected the friend request(she doesn't know him).
-that makes no sense.
back to topic..........
during early childhood, I once $hit my pants in the class room. that was sort of common, many kids would have these toilet problems...when it happened to me, I tried to cover it up. the uniform was not pants, but shorts. The $hit fell through my $horts onto the ground. I placed my bag around it so no one would see it till break time. Then I would just carry it to the toilet and get rid of it. As soon as lunch break started, some kids spotted it. They asked what it is. I told them it is keema/kebab, I brought for lunch. They bought it, cuz I had picked it up in my hand, and by that time, it had lost moisture and become sort of solid, so it didn't fall apart. Then I carried it to the toilet LIKE A BOSS , but a very dirty one lol....One my way, a teacher spotted me with that thing. I told her the same thing with confidence. She knew it wasn't food that I was carrying, but cuz of my confidence, she thought it was a waste of her time trying to make me agree to her. So she got out of my way. The cleanup operation was a success. I saved my self from the greatest possible embarassment of my childhood.
The lesson I learnt was that if you do something with confidence, no one can make fun of you. Confidence is the "anti-embarassant".