Feeling very down!

s55 (s55) 2008-08-13 01:08:00 +0600 #1

Just started this thread to share with you guys that I couldnt sleep all night and I am still awake. I dont know why I am feeling so sad right now. Recalling all my classmates, cannot help it out at all. May because I am falling apart from my classmates with passing time. Many of them never email, call or contact through any means.

I dont know why but I am not happy with my life, I dont know what I want in life or how will I get the peace of mind and true happiness.

Sharing with you guys because I always feel free to express my feelings at pakwheels.

toofast (Ali) 2008-08-13 02:03:00 +0600 #2

Time to move on and make new friends(B)

madtorque (madtorque) 2008-08-13 02:23:00 +0600 #3

s55 i dont know u well ... but 1 thing i know that "You Are lucky if you have got good and sincere friends" but in your situation just dont take any tension brother... its life...

I also have lost many sweet friends but please dont be tense .... and yes make new friends....

c123pk (c123pk) 2008-08-13 02:40:00 +0600 #4

@s55, bhai you are a sensitive guy i know, forgive me if i have hurt you, forgive your elder brother dude

hasan4u (Ajmal) 2008-08-13 03:02:00 +0600 #5

it happens dude sometimes your are and sometimes your are but this is life as in your case i am just guessing you are heart broken?????? Never mind buddy just listen the song ITS MY LIFE lound and be happy.

Einstein (Einstein) 2008-08-13 03:04:00 +0600 #6

@s55 i dont know u as well but u seem like an intelligent guy from your posts! This sadness happens sometimes ull get through! Btw brother can u tell me what happened to my thread about wierd things happening on pakwheels! If u remember i posted it a few days back and u replied to it i cannot find it anywhere! And also how can i see all threads or posts by me is there a way?

doc (doc) 2008-08-13 03:38:00 +0600 #7

See a shrink.

LUCK_LIBRA (LUCK_LIBRA) 2008-08-13 03:47:00 +0600 #8

Ailaan-e- murg hua to us ne bhi keh dia mohsin!
Acha hua mar gaya aksar udas rehta tha...
Dnt take it on heart
cheer up man its part of life

hamza_00 (hamza_00) 2008-08-13 04:42:00 +0600 #9

@s55

Bro wiya kr lo

eusophzye (eusophzye) 2008-08-13 06:24:00 +0600 #10

U know dude its hard to trust anyone even the best of ur friends... everyone is mean... my advice for u .. keep friends but dont have a blind trust... majority of people r having the same problem... just believe in urself and move on with ur life... stay close to ur family...

ahsen_rg (ahsen_rg) 2008-08-13 06:40:00 +0600 #11

yup, its about time we start looking for my bhaabhi..

carbonclass (carbonclass) 2008-08-13 07:07:00 +0600 #12

Hota hai Chalta hai. Dont Worry

wik_a (wik_a) 2008-08-13 07:37:00 +0600 #13

@s55

Dear i've diagnosed 'marriage syndrome' in you. Now go and get married. :P:D

zakeiiii (zakeiiii) 2008-08-13 07:47:00 +0600 #14

@s55 ,

Brother Recite Ayat-ul-Kursi before going to sleep.
Well this is life, always changing. Don't trust any one; they will hurt you alot.
Try to keep yourself busy and have your own vision and goal.

En Barasho se dosti achi nahi faraz
Kacha tera makan hain koch to khayal kar

I hope you understand what I am trying to say

kiani (kiani) 2008-08-13 07:51:00 +0600 #15

Allah Subhanwataala has said that hapiness and contentment of heart lies in Deen, yet foolish people like us seek to acheive happiness and contentment of heart in the company of friends or family or by earning a lot of money etc etc.
My friend true happiness you can only acheive by having a direct connection with Allah taala. When you have Allah taala on your side you dont need anything or anyone else. Making a connection with Allah taala is also very easy just read namaz properly with total concentration because when u are reading namaz you are standing directly infront of Allah taala. and also do a lot of zikar of Allah taala and you will feel the difference in your heart soon.

mercury (mercury) 2008-08-13 10:35:00 +0600 #16

^^bhai jaan, dont bring islam into every little thing :)...following islam guarantees u "sukoon and cheyn", but sadness and happiness is part of life..

jaan99 (jaan99) 2008-08-13 11:30:00 +0600 #17

take your wife or Gf On long Drive

s55 (s55) 2008-08-13 22:57:00 +0600 #18

@All
Thank you all for all those kinds words and suggestions for me.
One reason why I was sad is that many of my classmates are out of Pakistan now, others are on job and some have joined universities for masters. I feel like we never gonna meet again in this life. We who spent 4 years together are now so far and so busy that cannot think to even have a get together. If you just take an example of my group mates consisting of 6 members, 2 are in KSA including one of my best friend.
When I just think of future and all of it I feel like scared.

And yes find a girl for me by the way how do you guys "set" a girl any tips :s

chauhdarywaqar (chauhdarywaqar) 2008-08-13 23:31:00 +0600 #19

@s55
Kaise ho...?? kider hotay ho...?? kya kar rahe ho...?? Yaar jab bhi main dekhta hoon you're sad bro.. Cheer up find a girl and chill chill chill...

Bilaltq (Bilaltq) 2008-08-13 23:45:00 +0600 #20

Don't listen to chaudry saab- his life's song is "Aashiq baanaya"- it's what happens AFTER the song ends is what screws you up

Don't worry about it. I've moved around continents QUITE a lot and don't worry- the closest friends will stay and those you aren't close to will go away and you won't give it much more thought.