My boyfriend crashed

chantalgardener (chantalgardener) 2017-10-22 12:09:42 +0500 #1

I was waiting on a gala last Friday night for my boyfriend when I received the news that he crashed while on his way to the gala. He had a concussion and went on a surgery. He woke up Saturday morning and since then he hasn't talked to me at all. I am really really worried about him. I don't know what else I can do. I am beside him almost 24/7 just to make sure that all his needs are attended. But I don't even know what he needs because he's not talking to me. Please any advice that I can do for my boyfriend. Help

qwertz (Dr Afaq Ahmad) 2017-10-22 12:30:00 +0500 #2

All you can do is pray for him. Be kind to the family members. Talk to medical staff and make sure his meds are given on time. God keep him safe. Good luck.

Hassan1991 (Electrical Engineer ) 2017-10-22 12:43:25 +0500 #3

Ho gya kaam

biloo (Bilal) 2017-10-22 14:47:38 +0500 #4

Of all the places in the world you thought you could find help on PakWHEELS forums? I think your boy friend did that on purpose , he had no other choice.

souldriver47 (Ahmad Hashmi) 2017-10-22 14:57:04 +0500 #6

Perhaps he faked his accident to get away from you ?? Have you thought about that ??

nomanbhatti2002 (NASA) 2017-10-22 15:20:32 +0500 #7

crap

ashbal (ashbal) 2017-10-22 16:34:32 +0500 #8

That crash is all what he needed

dilshadfatima (Unknown) 2017-10-22 19:23:48 +0500 #9

The only reasonable advice .all other people are spilling garbage .

dilshadfatima (Unknown) 2017-10-22 19:26:58 +0500 #10

Just give your boyfriend time to heal with whatever he is suffering mentally /physically . In the mean time keep his needs fulfilled and keep on giving your support to him . Ignore the other stupid remarks made by some other posters .they will know your feelings when same happens to their loved ones . Good luck to you Chantal

ali454 (Ancient Pakwheeler) 2017-10-22 19:38:56 +0500 #11

How old are you?

stephanieharmon329 (Stephanie Harmon) 2017-10-22 20:13:09 +0500 #12

I agree with dilshadfatima. Maybe he still needs to recover and adjust mentally after the accident. Try to consult his doctors about it. They are the perfect persons to ask and you can definitely get the best recommendations.

unknown_one (unknown_one) 2017-10-23 10:25:54 +0500 #13

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qwertz (Dr Afaq Ahmad) 2017-10-23 11:47:40 +0500 #14

How quick we are to issue a fatwa. We love it when we feel 'authorized' to label people kafir. We will never be tolerant and reason oriented.

nomanbhatti2002 (NASA) 2017-10-23 12:38:15 +0500 #15

Akhi its not fatwa its very clear in our religion there are no two opinion on that relation in Islam. Yeah alag batt hai ki we dont act on our religion but we are two quick to react for any thing related to religion.

dilshadfatima (Unknown) 2017-10-23 15:19:11 +0500 #16

She is Christian , she is in USA . She will go in her own grave ,not in yours . What’s your problem ? She can live as she wants . Maulvi sahab @unknown_one @nomanbhatti2002

nomanbhatti2002 (NASA) 2017-10-23 15:38:45 +0500 #17

every Muslim is a dayee yani it i his responsibility to guide right path to another human( Muslim or not) even he himself not very good Muslim like me. Hope u got message and HE gave Hadaya to you tooooooo...

Khushbakht1 (Khushbakht khan) 2017-10-23 16:02:07 +0500 #18

why will someone post this on pakwheels and ask for advice from pakwheelsers

A.Muqeetkhan (A.Muqeetkhan) 2017-10-23 19:15:45 +0500 #19

a concussion is not to be taken lightly at all and in some cases have permanently altered the personality of the person. I wish you best of luck and know that other then praying and taking care of the basic needs nothing else is possible

chantalgardener (chantalgardener) 2017-10-24 08:12:16 +0500 #20

Thank you for the comments of the concerned ones. I appreciate your kind words. We talked to his doctor about the possible plan of action after the accident. He strongly suggested about having a premarital counseling for the both of us. I researched about it and bumped into an article of BetterHelp saying that it can help us both to conquer the challenges that the accident caused and at the same time heal individually.

nomanbhatti2002 (NASA) 2017-10-25 13:00:31 +0500 #21

whats link between his health recovery with pre-marital counseling??