Thank you very much Bhai for wishing me on promotion. Yeh sab Allah SWT ki meherbani hai
When I read John Gray, it was that I laughed and smiled at each line and each page. Both men and women, receive the same information but process it differently.
Just now, two PakWheeler friends were at my house. One of them has upcoming first wedding anniversary on Monday, so he was thinking about the appropriate gift for his wife. Our other PW friend suggested buying something expensive i.e. gold jewelry piece. Considering my research on men and women, I advised him not to go by the typical male psyche. Men tend to go for a single, very expensive gift. However, in case of women, they typically do not care about the value and size of the gift. For them, the number of gifts matter. We had a rather prolonged discussion on this suggest. Finally, I advised him to google it and see if I am right. I know I am ... 
Yes the annual loss of love is 30%, and unless the partners think of new and novel ways of expressing their loves, the romance in the relationship goes down the drain in a little over three years.
Both partners must make renewed efforts, every day of their lives, to keep their relationships alive and healthy, otherwise, the result is, as you suggested, living with compromises in our lives.
