Wat 2 say 2 her?

razor_salman1 (razor_salman1) 2011-04-26 16:47:37 +0500 #1

guyz i knw again its a foolish thread..but anyways i m on completion of my bs degree.................................,a girl 1yr junior 2 me, i luv her but couldnt talk 2 her since i knw her (probably 5months)...i thought i hav plenty of time ,but knw i realize dat i m not gonna see her anymore, i want 2 do somethin in these few days to make her realize dat i love her...wat shud i do?? mods plz dont close it for a couple of dayz

ale.hamza (ale.hamza) 2011-04-26 17:03:31 +0500 #2

First of all, try to be her friend. Then later on, things can get heavy. Find your mutual friends and tell them to help you.

ale.hamza (ale.hamza) 2011-04-26 17:06:24 +0500 #3

Just DON'T make her feel now that you love her. That would be a problem. Befriend her for now.

PGhasanJ (PGhasanJ) 2011-04-26 17:12:16 +0500 #4

if all else fails say to her :

"I would really like to be able to perform Hajj with u"

jayb (jayb) 2011-04-26 17:27:39 +0500 #5

My personal opinion (because it worked with me) and also because you say you know for 5 months (I assume you're on talking terms with her):

Tell her you love her. If she's interested just a tiny bit, she won't say no. Trust me. And this way you will have peace of mind that you tried and you know the answer. If you don't (because you are short on time) you will always wonder.

PS: Saying I love you to the girl of your dreams is a very hard task but its totally worth it.

s55 (s55) 2011-04-26 17:31:05 +0500 #6

Alright, I have been in this situation and I know how you must be feeling right now
First thing is to just relax yourself and keep your mind open for thoughts not to rush in but to think confidently, I know its hard but you have to do.
Second thing is to tell everything to some of your closest friends that you can trust, as they may know someone close to her and can find some way that you can tell her.
Third thing is just to talk to her and not propose her on your first meeting, so feel confident like she is any other girl (as its hard to talk to someone for the first time you have feelings for). Before that you should find out if she is engaged or something as the girl who is engaged might not treat you very nicely. So be a detective and find out some information about her before you proceed, don't just go blank face. Keep your emotions in control so she doesn't get scared with you and don't behave like a street guy and keep someone well reputed at your back. Best of luck!!
PS whatever happens, just think that its not the end of the world and whatever happens, happens for good.

killervtec (killervtec) 2011-04-26 17:38:19 +0500 #7

Intresting thread with highly qualified "Dacters" to guide ppl.

Nice

razor_salman1 (razor_salman1) 2011-04-26 17:41:28 +0500 #8

@s55
thnks 4 sincere advices sir.....

s55 (s55) 2011-04-26 17:51:41 +0500 #9

You're welcome brother. Try your best and best of luck!!

furri (furri) 2011-04-26 17:59:02 +0500 #10

i got no advice ...but gotta say this is a nice thread bahahaha

2c (2c) 2011-04-26 17:59:13 +0500 #11

s55 told you the direcft way
i can tell you an indirect way
take her out on a dinner and get yourself caught by her or by your parents.
once they know you can explain every one what do you feel about her
(app unn ki addaoun par maar jatay hain)

furri (furri) 2011-04-26 17:59:18 +0500 #12

and yeah best of luck !

s55 (s55) 2011-04-26 18:08:40 +0500 #13

Okay, my suggestions are based on the assumption that you have never talked to her and this will be the first time you will be talking. If my assumption is wrong and you're already in conversation with her then you can straight away tell her how you feel for her, I believe a nice girl will always respect your feelings and if she responds rudely to you then she doesn't deserve you so just be positive in your approach. Take care!!

aqgmbest (aqgmbest) 2011-04-26 18:25:39 +0500 #14

woho.!!!! love GUru !!! baba on pw !!!
very nice advice BDW...

portage1 (portage1) 2011-04-26 18:43:47 +0500 #15

All the love gurus.... lol...... Very simple give her flowers , with a note you been om my mind ... ya toe lurkee pus jai gee, ya phir us kae bhai sae aup ko jutae lugae gae... Ishaq is not easy ask @S55:o

Sniperr (Sniperr) 2011-04-26 18:52:44 +0500 #16

Bhai uske liye apna kaat do dekhna zarur impress hojaegi....

2c (2c) 2011-04-26 19:05:58 +0500 #17

kuch samagh nahee aai bahi

nomicool (nomicool) 2011-04-26 19:32:36 +0500 #18

Go and pr1ck a thumb pin in her bum...and then when she bleeds, take her to the hospital and threaten her there on the hospital bed that you will kill her if she says no to your proposal.

Alternately, go and sing this song to her: "Excuse me girl...I'm da best...accept kero ma fraaand request..."

Boredandalone (Boredandalone) 2011-04-26 19:35:18 +0500 #20

I will give you an honest advice as a brother. If you love her,say it to her now.Believe me,you will regret it for the rest of your life if you dont say it now and lose her.But make sure you love her and its not just an attraction,because that would be unfair to her.If you haven't yet talked to her,Iam 80% sure its just attraction.Personally,I think love is all bull crap.There are 2 emotions;care and ****** desire which people mix up and classify as love.If a woman finds a more financially stable man than you,then no matter how much she "loves" you,she will go off with him and get married without thinking about you.I used to be like you sometime back,but after getting a taste of life,I prefer to stay away from girls and "love".Learn from me.

mani1 (mani1) 2011-04-26 19:35:53 +0500 #21

respect