well i would like to thank every one who gave their opinions but i've got some points figured out
first of all i would like to tell you i was up all night searching internet on various psychological ways to forget some thing as it runs in the family we donot forget things very easily, so i had to use some thing technical
before that i tried to contact that girl by myself and believe me i was not so degraded in all my life as today morning
i would have convinced her, if it wqas not for her mother who did not even allow me to talk to her then i tried her cell phone it was dead.
there i supposed it's a wild goose chase so with my research of this night i've come across following findings may be it'll help someone else as well
1) i talked to him about her making him cry his heart out and believe me it was not a pleasent sight to see my own brother crying in my arms
2) after the burden on his brain was done i told him to take long breaths as it removes tense muscles in body when he relaxed.
3) i told him all the trouble i went through and as i was expecting he became furious instead of hurt listening how i spent one hour infront of that girls servants banging on their door and with her mother on the other side not oppening up and how i pleaded her i needed to see her.
4) point here is in emotional traumas its like a strange fire which can only be put out by an even extensive emotional fire.
now i'm planning to take his mind to other activities let's see how that goes
and i don think gettin another girfriend is in question any longer
thanks for every one's support again
