What is the right age to get married & have kids?

[s55]

Ofcourse need a better dress. We need dress with heavy work.

[c123pk]

Heavy but neat at the same time, that looks good too

[s55]

Ji Ali bhai, you know what I am saying. Now come up with something.

[rusty_racer94]

whats the result ?

[air_explorer]

@rusty

yar tum bacha log ne yeh topic non serious kardia hai,ab tum sirf yahan BARON ki discussion suno aur seekho

[rusty_racer94]

but I am really worried about my marriage I just wanna get married at 22 , I have long talks with my parents daily on this topc but they say '' Pehlay kuch ban jao ''

[air_explorer]

@rusty

they are 100% right.

[rusty_racer94]

But wouldn't it be late then?
Means when I will go to university. I will be 23 and I will study for 3-4 years then I would be something :S

[asimgujjar]

@ rusty
yaar itni calculations kernay ki zarrorat nahin hai, abhi kr lo shaadi, jb tak tm 22 k hoo gay tmharay 5 ya 6 saal ka bacha bhi hoga

[rusty_racer94]

thumbs up for you (Y)

[s55]

rusty_racer94
I have you ever received that email with a guy writing a note to his parents? in the and he asks them to open the drawer his report card is there. If you got what I am talking about forward the same letter to your parents

[shezy_optra_dohc]

but I am really worried about my marriage I just wanna get married at 22 , I have long talks with my parents daily on this topc but they say '' Pehlay kuch ban jao ''

slow down lil champ, I think you shouldnt be talkin' with your parents on this topic, stick to your schools report card now, that should be the appropriate thing to talk about with your parents. I am 18 and iv never talked to my parents about this. how can you ?

[asimgujjar]

^^ today kidz are not kidz anymore

[s55]

I still feel shy to talk about this to my mother :S

[s55]

Even with bro/sisters. :S though they thought about me

[cool_boy_in_vipersrt10]

hahahah m visiting PW after 2-3 weeks and this is the most interesting topic atm :P........lmao at rusty....oh bhai sabar kar ja ki jaldi aye? first concentrate on ur studies...
and lke evry1 else said for me 24-25 is the ideal age for marriage. my parents hav asked me billions time to get married but my answer goes no all the way

[attie4]

The early you settle in life is better. Worked out great for me.Alhamdoallah.

I got married when I was 23. One kid right away. 2nd kid last yr. Both kids 7 yrs apart. It's not that we didn't try. When Allah wanted it to happen then you can't argue. Both kids worked out the best for both of us. First kid was born in 01 when me and my wife, both finished collage. Then she got into med school when he was 2 and I started my own business. Now the 2nd child was born last yr when my wife is about to finish her residency and we gonna start a new chapter in our lifes next june inshallah.

All my brothers were married when they were pretty young and they are very well settled in their lifes and doing great by the grace of Allah.

• I didn't have to give up my hobbies even when I had my first child. Had a Supra since past 6 yrs, a 10 sec DSM since 04 and a GSX750 that I kept for 2 yrs. So now I got bored of all that. Have done in life pretty much what I wanted and when i wanted. So now the Supra is gone, DSM for sale for something newer and better(Z6ZO6 or a 996/7 911tt next yr inshallah). I'm keeping the fire arms though.lol

Oh yeah, this would be our 10th yr wedding anniversary in Oct.

[asimgujjar]

I married 2 years back just bcoz of my father's pressure. my wife is 3 year older than me. um still regretting that time

[shezy_optra_dohc]

^^ wow you got married when you were 20 ? Did you have a job then ??, I cannot imagine getting married after two years when i turn 20. Gotta enjoy my teenage.

[s55]

asimgujjar
Why you're upset with your marriage bro?

shezy_optra_dohc
Your teenage will end at 19 boy, the sooner you marry the better you will feel. I guess