Help Required: I don't want to share my car

[zafaryab3]

You should give your car sometimes for short periods like 2-3 hours or so ... long periods just refuse and say you need the car ... you can ask when you will get the car back ... if it's more than 2-3 hours then tell them you need to go to a friends place or to the workshop and need the car, or even a job interview ... do this everytime they ask.

when they take the car and are late in bringing back the car then start calling them every 10 mins saying i need my car ... once they come back grab the keys and drive off to sea view and have an ice-cream or something.

when you keep calling them they'll get uncomfortable and will prefer not to take your car coz you bug them during their peaceful cruise or shopping or whatever they are doing.

at the same time you can be polite and respectful to your elders. after a while they'll get the point you're trying to make.

you make the most sense lol you should follow this guys advice

[aantherax]

then you should say a blunt no to him thats it he deserve it then ...

[KamranAslam]

^^^ agree..

Cars, shoes, Cloths are not to be shared, tell your Phupa in clear words, or face it.

The Job is not there, and then comes in the Muftaas !!!!! Pull your self out from it. Bohat hogaya Pyar, I hope you do not owe any money help from him in the past, which is keeping your mouth shut.

Speak-up On his Face, or tell your Dad or Mom to take care for this.

Best of Luck.

[ahsan1702]

Honestly whats stopping you from telling him no because he ruins your car!

I mean seriously, even broke the windscreen ? I wouldnt care if they other is an elder. Being of elder age doesnt mean he can take and abuse what belongs to you.

Remember if he hits someone with the car, you'd be the one at fault since its your car. And judging by his driving, one can expect that to happen.

[portage1]

Your puppa is using you ....take the tire off when you except him and tell him you got a problem in axle.... and wheel comes out after 3 or 4 blocks and he can not use it , and tell me yu waiting to have enough money to fix it... till then no one drives the car.... he is a DEETH... but may be he get a hint..or tell him you got a job interview and you got to go..tell him any excuse...and say sorry not this time...PS. you owe me $50 for my advice

[faheemboy]

what r u shy of tell him straight that hello mr this car is mine and the way u give it back to me is totally un acceptable.use his thing n mess it up, that he loves the most.or tell ur phupi
dil yu kraha ha do char galian day do apke phupa ko.

i hate such relatives,should be kept away from one

[2c]

what r u shy of tell him straight that hello mr this car is mine and the way u give it back to me is totally un acceptable.use his thing n mess it up, that he loves the most.or tell ur phupi
dil yu kraha ha do char galian day do apke phupa ko.

i hate such relatives,should be kept away from one

if he do that then he will be in serious family trouble

[2c]

Your puppa is using you ....take the tire off when you except him and tell him you got a problem in axle.... and wheel comes out after 3 or 4 blocks and he can not use it , and tell me yu waiting to have enough money to fix it... till then no one drives the car.... he is a DEETH... but may be he get a hint..or tell him you got a job interview and you got to go..tell him any excuse...and say sorry not this time...PS. you owe me $50 for my advice

he can give you 50 PKR as he is jobless at the moment
consider giving him a discount

[airomerix]

you must be very found of indian serials

And how do my comment belongs to indian serials? And yes you suck at humor. And iam "FOUND" to cars not some series you're talking about.

[margallar]

to be honest indian serials have ruined the love in the family relationships. one can only fream about having a peaceful time with relatives around. there is so much jelousy

[Hasnain3958]

to be honest indian serials have ruined the love in the family relationships. one can only fream about having a peaceful time with relatives around. there is so much jelousy

now where is this conversation going

[versatilegenious]

now where is this conversation going

Star Plus

[2c]

One of the best topics on PW so far! very very informative!

And how do my comment belongs to indian serials? And yes you suck at humor. And iam "FOUND" to cars not some series you're talking about.

-first you liked the thread whihc is purely based on family melow drama
-second you find the topic very informative which shows you are really into those serials.
-third your statement " you suck at humor" clearly shows your affection towards those dramas becaue their si no humor in them as far as my goes about them.

[airomerix]

-first you liked the thread whihc is purely based on family melow drama
-second you find the topic very informative which shows you are really into those serials.
-third your statement " you suck at humor" clearly shows your affection towards those dramas becaue their si no humor in them as far as my goes about them.

First, I DONNOT see this thread as some FAMILY DRAMA! Its more related to someones hard work and love and affection for his CAR! Not hatred towards any family member!

Secondly, I found this topic to be informative BECAUSE i am getting ideas to deal with similar situations in future incase!

Thirdly, your judgement is purely based on your mindset and environment in which you live that is why you are concluding my statement mindlessly.

Lastly, You are not acting any SMARTER by posting irrelevant comments. Mind your own business and stop poking your nose into matters which out of your understanding.
:S

[iLLDuDe786]

Bhai get timer switch(half hour) installed can buy from electronic market (used in microwave,oven,washing machine)when he borrow the car start the timer after half hour he is pushing the car on road after few time pushing he will never borrow it again but please let your phoopa know the car have problem and it stop after 20~25 minute drive so he is prepare

hahahaaha thats hilarious

[iLLDuDe786]

dude add a loud fartcan exhaust. he wont drive it again

[sulemanmirza]

take the spark plugs out or something like that, and tell him that car wont start from yesterday, don't know the damn problem...i have called the mechanic he will come at that time..!!!

[ronaldo9]

Bro i relly feel sorry for you as i iv been victim several times..but it is very unnecessary to give away your highly expensive and good conditions car away it is surely very bad experience.Most people in Pakistan don't bother to take public transport which i believe is my first thought to do.its just show off those who borrow/take you to parties or wedding or anywhere its really unnecessary if i was you i would of honestly said phuppha im sorry but its NO! from me!

Solution to this situation is hire a driver no matter what keep safe driver or drive your phuppa wherever he needs to go.!

Hope it works!

[BMW7Series]

phupa ko kahen.. chalo dor jao koi gari nai milni .. j/k

[madhouse12]

the timer solution seems to be the best idea so far. the cheapskate that ur phuppa is, he will never take it to any electrician for fixing. also if you know where he is going to park the car, just go with a friend there and loosen the plug wires and leave. if he has trouble each time he takes the car, he wont ask you for it. or you can have a security system installed without his knowledge and arm it silently while he is out. the car wont start. keep asking ur parents money to get the car fixed after he has bought it back quietly mentioning k is dafa yeh kharab ker diya hai unhon ne and that. ur parents will themself tell you not to lend it anymore.